Follow Up on the baby onesie drama

Okay, so the plot thickens. Over at Ms. Magazine, someone else saw the onesie and took note. I don’t agree that purple is a culturally gender neutral color, but do agree with everything else, (I particularly like the phrase “projecting

Follow Up on the baby onesie drama

Okay, so the plot thickens. Over at Ms. Magazine, someone else saw the onesie and took note. I don’t agree that purple is a culturally gender neutral color, but do agree with everything else, (I particularly like the phrase “projecting

Baby Fat Shaming!

I am so completely filled with rage that I have snapped out of it and started blogging again. I was recently in one of my favorite local stores and was horrified to see this onesie (purple, so clearly intended for

Baby Fat Shaming!

I am so completely filled with rage that I have snapped out of it and started blogging again. I was recently in one of my favorite local stores and was horrified to see this onesie (purple, so clearly intended for

yoga push-up bras?!

sorry, when did we start needing perky tits in order to do yoga?! i know victoria’s secret hasn’t always been a bastion of amazingness and feminism, but seriously, i don’t need to “give my workout a boost.” it’s a sports

yoga push-up bras?!

sorry, when did we start needing perky tits in order to do yoga?! i know victoria’s secret hasn’t always been a bastion of amazingness and feminism, but seriously, i don’t need to “give my workout a boost.” it’s a sports

May is Masturbation Month!

Always right under the wire, I remind you that May is Masturbation Month! It’s always good to celebrate your sexuality, and in my less than professional opinion, masturbation is a very important way to figure out what you like and

May is Masturbation Month!

Always right under the wire, I remind you that May is Masturbation Month! It’s always good to celebrate your sexuality, and in my less than professional opinion, masturbation is a very important way to figure out what you like and

RI approves Gay Marriage

Way to be Rhode Island! Moving forward day by day. xox

RI approves Gay Marriage

Way to be Rhode Island! Moving forward day by day. xox

Bang with Friends!!

Bang with Friends: It’s useability is clunky at best, but I love the concept! Ya’ll had to have known I’d review Bang With Friends so you can decide if you want to use it or not. Of course, it’s kind

Bang with Friends!!

Bang with Friends: It’s useability is clunky at best, but I love the concept! Ya’ll had to have known I’d review Bang With Friends so you can decide if you want to use it or not. Of course, it’s kind

lube!

i have a million and ten more things to say about lube and how amazing and great it is, but for now, here’s a #protip: start using lube now so when you are old & need it you won’t care/feel

lube!

i have a million and ten more things to say about lube and how amazing and great it is, but for now, here’s a #protip: start using lube now so when you are old & need it you won’t care/feel

Happy V-Day!

Happy V-Day once again! Time flies. Per the usual, I’d recommend a viewing of the Vagina Monologues – find one in your area and go if you’ve never been! For the 15th anniversary of V-Day, check out the One Billion

Happy V-Day!

Happy V-Day once again! Time flies. Per the usual, I’d recommend a viewing of the Vagina Monologues – find one in your area and go if you’ve never been! For the 15th anniversary of V-Day, check out the One Billion

Pheromones

Not gonna lie. When I ovulate, sometimes my sweat smells like sex. tmi, tmi, but it’s true facts and kind of fascinating. #bodies

Pheromones

Not gonna lie. When I ovulate, sometimes my sweat smells like sex. tmi, tmi, but it’s true facts and kind of fascinating. #bodies

Infidelity Intended.

And here’s a way overdue rant… Some days i honestly think i should get some sort of goddamn award for protecting the sanctity of other peoples’ monogamous relationships. The number of times I have stopped/prevented/not encouraged some making out with

Infidelity Intended.

And here’s a way overdue rant… Some days i honestly think i should get some sort of goddamn award for protecting the sanctity of other peoples’ monogamous relationships. The number of times I have stopped/prevented/not encouraged some making out with

That Rape Thing

So angry. So sad. It’s been a combo of those emotions ongoing for this entire election season. Not that it hasn’t been a combo of those emotions for my entire life, but it feels like it’s been really heightened every

That Rape Thing

So angry. So sad. It’s been a combo of those emotions ongoing for this entire election season. Not that it hasn’t been a combo of those emotions for my entire life, but it feels like it’s been really heightened every

Friend request from your rapist

Heard a part of this interview on NPR with Emily McCombs who is the Executive Editor at xoJane. Way more intense than my experience in some ways, but still made me tear up in the car. He remembers it as

Friend request from your rapist

Heard a part of this interview on NPR with Emily McCombs who is the Executive Editor at xoJane. Way more intense than my experience in some ways, but still made me tear up in the car. He remembers it as

Rape is rape

It’s been way too long since I’ve blogged, and honestly, it’s mostly due to the rage/heartbreak combo that comes from all the bullshit coming out of the mouths of politicians in regards to rape. It’s so bad that it crosses

Rape is rape

It’s been way too long since I’ve blogged, and honestly, it’s mostly due to the rage/heartbreak combo that comes from all the bullshit coming out of the mouths of politicians in regards to rape. It’s so bad that it crosses

Don’t Fucking Touch Me!

I have a crick in my back today that is driving me bananas. Beyond the annoyance/pain, mostly I am agitated that it’s a reminder of my being a dipshit behavior. I need to treat myself better than this. Last night

Don’t Fucking Touch Me!

I have a crick in my back today that is driving me bananas. Beyond the annoyance/pain, mostly I am agitated that it’s a reminder of my being a dipshit behavior. I need to treat myself better than this. Last night

Sex Ed! We need it!

It’s really hard to argue with this beautious infographic on why we need sex education. I often blame my poor introduction to sexuality on my poor sexual education. There is nothing more obvious than the importance of teaching kids how

Sex Ed! We need it!

It’s really hard to argue with this beautious infographic on why we need sex education. I often blame my poor introduction to sexuality on my poor sexual education. There is nothing more obvious than the importance of teaching kids how

Pub(l)ic Service Announcement

And now for my pub(l)ic service announcement of the day. Stop trying to look prepubescent. If you need a reason to stop taking all that time and energy to look like a 12 year old, perhaps this study letting us

Pub(l)ic Service Announcement

And now for my pub(l)ic service announcement of the day. Stop trying to look prepubescent. If you need a reason to stop taking all that time and energy to look like a 12 year old, perhaps this study letting us

Free Vibes in NYC

All ye New Yorkers, get the to the free vibrator event of the century. Seriously, if you don’t take advantage of this I’ll be very disappointed in you. Having a vibrator can be a fun addition to your sex life.

Free Vibes in NYC

All ye New Yorkers, get the to the free vibrator event of the century. Seriously, if you don’t take advantage of this I’ll be very disappointed in you. Having a vibrator can be a fun addition to your sex life.

Vibrators at Pharmacy

Nothing makes me happier than walking into a Walgreens or CVS and seeing the plethora of hella cheap vibrators they have for sale these days. Yay for normalizing use of sex toys! Oh yeah, while you are getting milk and

Vibrators at Pharmacy

Nothing makes me happier than walking into a Walgreens or CVS and seeing the plethora of hella cheap vibrators they have for sale these days. Yay for normalizing use of sex toys! Oh yeah, while you are getting milk and

pussy songs

I have been musing a lot recently about how it’s bad ass and awesome that ladies in the music world are singing about oral sex all of the time. Most notably Azealia Banks (212). I just get giddy that it’s

pussy songs

I have been musing a lot recently about how it’s bad ass and awesome that ladies in the music world are singing about oral sex all of the time. Most notably Azealia Banks (212). I just get giddy that it’s

Project Unbreakable

Found this amazing and inspiring site, Project Unbreakable. Mine would probably say: “This is the only way I can come.”

Project Unbreakable

Found this amazing and inspiring site, Project Unbreakable. Mine would probably say: “This is the only way I can come.”

sandusky convicted

I must say it’s a bit of a relief that Jerry Sandusky was found guilty this week. I was feeling concerned that it could have gone very very badly. The entire situation is so fucking grim it’s unthinkable – and

sandusky convicted

I must say it’s a bit of a relief that Jerry Sandusky was found guilty this week. I was feeling concerned that it could have gone very very badly. The entire situation is so fucking grim it’s unthinkable – and

Vag Lightening

The only way to appropriately process anger is to put it into changing things and making it different. Sometimes I think that blogging about it is good because then at least maybe people learn about it. And here is an

Vag Lightening

The only way to appropriately process anger is to put it into changing things and making it different. Sometimes I think that blogging about it is good because then at least maybe people learn about it. And here is an

Politeness vs. Unwanted Touch

I witnessed a most disturbing interaction on the train this morning. There was a visibly drunk man sitting on the train in the seat for senior citizens or pregnant ladies. A woman came onto the train with a small boy,

Politeness vs. Unwanted Touch

I witnessed a most disturbing interaction on the train this morning. There was a visibly drunk man sitting on the train in the seat for senior citizens or pregnant ladies. A woman came onto the train with a small boy,

vagina, vagina, vagina

Yeah, i’ve already blogged about it, but this whole Lisa Brown business just makes me so happy. We should have general public stagings of The Vagina Monologues more often, just as a consistent reminder of how we should all just

vagina, vagina, vagina

Yeah, i’ve already blogged about it, but this whole Lisa Brown business just makes me so happy. We should have general public stagings of The Vagina Monologues more often, just as a consistent reminder of how we should all just

sex drive

This is something that continues to boggle my mind. I am actually curious about your feedback. I think that we have a deeply ingrained stereotype that men have a higher sex drive than women. However, I’d like to theorize that

sex drive

This is something that continues to boggle my mind. I am actually curious about your feedback. I think that we have a deeply ingrained stereotype that men have a higher sex drive than women. However, I’d like to theorize that

May is Masturbation Month!

Ladies and gentlemen! You have one day to catch up if you haven’t yet been celebrating National Masturbation Month this May! There are so many things I love about this, it’s not even funny. I love the reasons it exists.

May is Masturbation Month!

Ladies and gentlemen! You have one day to catch up if you haven’t yet been celebrating National Masturbation Month this May! There are so many things I love about this, it’s not even funny. I love the reasons it exists.

Fifty Shades of Pussy Balls.

Sometimes I get nervous that I won’t be a legit blogger until I’ve read Fifty Shades of Grey. I know I’ll eventually have to give in and read that shit; I feel obligated in some way to stay on top

Fifty Shades of Pussy Balls.

Sometimes I get nervous that I won’t be a legit blogger until I’ve read Fifty Shades of Grey. I know I’ll eventually have to give in and read that shit; I feel obligated in some way to stay on top

bachelorette season

Once again at Bachelorette season i have to die a little bit on the inside and watch this shit. This’ll be a short post because otherwise i’d just be paraphrasing myself from last season’s bach emotions. But once again, my

bachelorette season

Once again at Bachelorette season i have to die a little bit on the inside and watch this shit. This’ll be a short post because otherwise i’d just be paraphrasing myself from last season’s bach emotions. But once again, my

Player.

After being accused of being a “player” last night, for the bazillionth time, I got to thinking so many things. Okay first off. If I don’t think I’m a player but someone perceives me as so, maybe the situation is

Player.

After being accused of being a “player” last night, for the bazillionth time, I got to thinking so many things. Okay first off. If I don’t think I’m a player but someone perceives me as so, maybe the situation is

Sex Attack!

Yesterday the metro published this ridiculous headline of note. “DNA links man to 2004 sex attack.” Sex Attack!?! Really?! That’s the term you want to use? Don’t you think sexual assault may be the term we are looking for? Sex

Sex Attack!

Yesterday the metro published this ridiculous headline of note. “DNA links man to 2004 sex attack.” Sex Attack!?! Really?! That’s the term you want to use? Don’t you think sexual assault may be the term we are looking for? Sex

boys not men.

oh boys. boys boys boys. you have so much to learn. seriously. by the time you are an adult, you should be able to handle a girl hitting on you. you should find it hot even. amazing. sexy. you should

boys not men.

oh boys. boys boys boys. you have so much to learn. seriously. by the time you are an adult, you should be able to handle a girl hitting on you. you should find it hot even. amazing. sexy. you should

jay z supporting gay marriage

i’ve always said jay z is the only man i would do even if he kept his socks on. love this adorable endorsement of gay marriage “it’s the right thing to do as a human being.” yay!

jay z supporting gay marriage

i’ve always said jay z is the only man i would do even if he kept his socks on. love this adorable endorsement of gay marriage “it’s the right thing to do as a human being.” yay!

makeup blows.

This whole shebang about Hillary Clinton not wearing makeup is so effing ridiculous i don’t even know how to react. In case you thought for a second that we were moving forward with gender equity and all that jazz, think

makeup blows.

This whole shebang about Hillary Clinton not wearing makeup is so effing ridiculous i don’t even know how to react. In case you thought for a second that we were moving forward with gender equity and all that jazz, think

Obama supports same sex marriage.

YAY. On the sad day North Carolina double secret banned same sex marriage (as if their existing law against it wasn’t enough!), it’s a bright spot to hear the president support it. whooop. i know that lots has been said

Obama supports same sex marriage.

YAY. On the sad day North Carolina double secret banned same sex marriage (as if their existing law against it wasn’t enough!), it’s a bright spot to hear the president support it. whooop. i know that lots has been said

Mistress.

I have been thinking about the word mistress. A mistress is a lady that you fuck frequently enough that you probably do something like pay for their apartment and give them some money weekly for groceries and other basic need

Mistress.

I have been thinking about the word mistress. A mistress is a lady that you fuck frequently enough that you probably do something like pay for their apartment and give them some money weekly for groceries and other basic need

HBO’s show “Girls” on HPV

All adventurous women do. i am struggling to decide how i feel about the handling of HPV on Girls. On the one hand, it’s kind of hilarious that they are all a little misinformed and ridiculous about it. On the

HBO’s show “Girls” on HPV

All adventurous women do. i am struggling to decide how i feel about the handling of HPV on Girls. On the one hand, it’s kind of hilarious that they are all a little misinformed and ridiculous about it. On the

the iphone friendly bra

this isn’t exactly sexually oriented, but nevertheless. i hate going dancing in the summer when you have no pockets. (i actually hate the girls have tiny pockets trend in fashion in general – i mean, what’s up with that? men

the iphone friendly bra

this isn’t exactly sexually oriented, but nevertheless. i hate going dancing in the summer when you have no pockets. (i actually hate the girls have tiny pockets trend in fashion in general – i mean, what’s up with that? men

trust

here is the thing. everyone who was ever in an abusive relationship ever has trust issues. of course it’s really hard to trust a partner ever again in the future. i have a really hard time trusting men. i think

trust

here is the thing. everyone who was ever in an abusive relationship ever has trust issues. of course it’s really hard to trust a partner ever again in the future. i have a really hard time trusting men. i think

rihanna’s man down

How is it even remotely possible i didn’t blog about Man Down when the song first came out? Rihanna got hella shit for it, of course. And of course, i’d like to disagree. People accused her of encouraging violence and

rihanna’s man down

How is it even remotely possible i didn’t blog about Man Down when the song first came out? Rihanna got hella shit for it, of course. And of course, i’d like to disagree. People accused her of encouraging violence and

feeling loved

if i thought no one i know was reading my blog, i would admit all of the truths that come to you in a moment of clarity when you are brushing your teeth or stuck in traffic or falling asleep.

feeling loved

if i thought no one i know was reading my blog, i would admit all of the truths that come to you in a moment of clarity when you are brushing your teeth or stuck in traffic or falling asleep.

PETA. again?!

I cannot possibly count the number of time one of PETA’s ads have pissed me off. They are insensitive to women over and over and over again. It’s totally revolting. Even in defending their new ad it’s snarky and unimpressive.

PETA. again?!

I cannot possibly count the number of time one of PETA’s ads have pissed me off. They are insensitive to women over and over and over again. It’s totally revolting. Even in defending their new ad it’s snarky and unimpressive.

really? we collectively forgave chris brown?

i don’t even watch the grammys or care about the grammys, but i was downright livid yesterday about how we have somehow accepted chris brown with open “give him a second chance” arms. domestic violence isn’t something you just blink

really? we collectively forgave chris brown?

i don’t even watch the grammys or care about the grammys, but i was downright livid yesterday about how we have somehow accepted chris brown with open “give him a second chance” arms. domestic violence isn’t something you just blink

damn you, ari fleischer

dearest ari fleischer. i was so looking forward to never hearing your name again. alas. now we hear that you were involved in interviewing folks for komen jobs, asking them how they would handle the planned parenthood funding. why in

damn you, ari fleischer

dearest ari fleischer. i was so looking forward to never hearing your name again. alas. now we hear that you were involved in interviewing folks for komen jobs, asking them how they would handle the planned parenthood funding. why in

Planned Parenthood!

Ahh! I feel like Planned Parenthood is taking a bit of a beating these days. Last night it was announced that the leading breast-cancer charity, Susan G. Komen for the Cure, has decided to stop funding breast exams at Planned

Planned Parenthood!

Ahh! I feel like Planned Parenthood is taking a bit of a beating these days. Last night it was announced that the leading breast-cancer charity, Susan G. Komen for the Cure, has decided to stop funding breast exams at Planned

Slut Shaming and Why it’s Wrong

You’ve probably already seen this, but check out this amazing and badass 13 year old girls discussing why slut shaming is wrong. If only i had been this articulate when i was her age. Oh, and had the internet. xox

Slut Shaming and Why it’s Wrong

You’ve probably already seen this, but check out this amazing and badass 13 year old girls discussing why slut shaming is wrong. If only i had been this articulate when i was her age. Oh, and had the internet. xox

Some girls like superheros

i’m sure you have all seen this beautiful gem of a rant from a young girl complaining about companies making everything pink for girls. Some girls like superheros. Some boys want pink. Sing it, sister! xox

Some girls like superheros

i’m sure you have all seen this beautiful gem of a rant from a young girl complaining about companies making everything pink for girls. Some girls like superheros. Some boys want pink. Sing it, sister! xox

plan b.

people. who needs plan b more? a). adults who can get a prescription and have better access to birth control (including knowledge and know how!) or b). 15 and 16 year olds who are in sexually active relationships and can’t

plan b.

people. who needs plan b more? a). adults who can get a prescription and have better access to birth control (including knowledge and know how!) or b). 15 and 16 year olds who are in sexually active relationships and can’t

virginity

Here’s a blog worth reading about virginity! i’m gonna send in my story of how i lost my virginity, and you should too! They may edit it or never post it, so i posted the questions to their answers below.

virginity

Here’s a blog worth reading about virginity! i’m gonna send in my story of how i lost my virginity, and you should too! They may edit it or never post it, so i posted the questions to their answers below.

Molly Marie Nuzzo superman

Man as Object: Reversing the Gaze at SOMArts

Wrote a quick little post about the Man as Object: Reversing the Gaze exhibit at SOMArts. You may not have caught this exhibit in San Francisco, but you can still check out this badass art at the SOMArts blog. While

Molly Marie Nuzzo superman

Man as Object: Reversing the Gaze at SOMArts

Wrote a quick little post about the Man as Object: Reversing the Gaze exhibit at SOMArts. You may not have caught this exhibit in San Francisco, but you can still check out this badass art at the SOMArts blog. While

oh, jealousy.

listen. i never promised anyone i wouldn’t be jealous ever. it’s this hilarious thing when you are in an open relationship. everyone assumes you have some steal trap enabling you to ignore the very socially ingrained and very natural feeling

oh, jealousy.

listen. i never promised anyone i wouldn’t be jealous ever. it’s this hilarious thing when you are in an open relationship. everyone assumes you have some steal trap enabling you to ignore the very socially ingrained and very natural feeling